To The Guys Who Lead Girls On

The thought of an indescribable romance lingers in every young adult female’s mind and although it takes time, women tend to over think that concept. There will come a time when they will find love but in between all of that there is you. You aren’t the you girls hope for, rather than the guy they dread meeting. It may be your charm or the way you speak but we all know she cannot stay away. You should be proud you were given the qualities of an irresistible human being, but females will argue those are the qualities that make you the perfect candidate for the negative ending.

You don't always realize what you are doing, forcing the over analyzation of girls to focus on the one time they got led on before. Being led on isn't something that girls tend to think about or want to think about, but in this new culture, it is the only thing that really can be thought about. It's hard to imagine a life where guys like you don't exist. It's almost as if you get the thrill of being able to tell your friends you found this girl, but you don't think it will go anywhere so you think you'll just lead her on until they fall for you. Falling for someone isn’t easy and you only create more problems for yourself. The problem with this is in the end, all you get is the wrath of the unbelievable large friend group that she suddenly has sometimes consisting of other girls who were also hurt by you.

It's not very hard to not lead a girl on. It's actually very easy and clear that girls won't get led on if you don't let them. Although guys enjoy the thrill of ending it; they should enjoy the thrill of not starting it. All you really have to do is tell them what you are looking for and if those feelings aren’t the same she will get the clue to not pursue. You always like to acknowledge the idea you may not be sure of what you want therefore you want to feel someone out. It is clear if the thought of no relationship is in your head, then leave them alone because it is obvious you are not what she is looking for either.

We know you will always exist and there will never be a time that males won’t lead girls on, but rethink your strategy. There will never be a time in which you find a girl who hasn’t been led on so just let her find someone that won’t lead her on. Although some are blind now, slowly girls will catch onto the strategy and use it to their advantage. One day the roles will be turned and girls will start to lead you on. Girls will not catch feelings like you hope they will, and in the end it is you who will be broken hearted. Just remember that the next time you try to lead a girl on.

 

By: Taylor Moore

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